About BecomeMellow

Q1: What is BecomeMellow?

BecomeMellow is a playful mentoring platform for couples and individuals who want to reconnect with joy, intimacy, and passion — not just in love, but in life.

We combine real talk, playful practices, and conscious tools to help you build better communication, deeper intimacy, and a more fulfilling relationship.

We believe there are two ways to live: Most people live avoiding pain. We invite you to live through pleasure.. We choose pleasure — because when you live with joy, everything else flows.

Q2: How is BecomeMellow different ?

We don’t analyze the past — we focus on creating a vibrant present and future.

Our mentoring is experience based, playful, and action oriented — designed to help you rediscover curiosity, joy, and connection.

It’s not therapy, it’s a conscious upgrade for your relationship and life.

The equation is simple: Better sex = Better life.

Services & Sessions

Q3: What services do you offer?

We offer 1:1 mentoring and couples mentoring, centered around our signature Mellow Method™ – Triple Session Coaching, plus personalized tools like our Play Map™ and Ritual Builde.

Every journey starts with a free call — no pressure, just curiosity.

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Q4: What is the Mellow Method™?

The Mellow Method™ is a 3step journey that blends shared exploration with individual mentoring:

Session 1 – Mapping Together: We cocreate your Play Map™, exploring your relationship patterns, needs, and desires.

Session 2 – Deep Dive: Individual sessions (one with Lidia, other with Eyal) to open emotional and sexual clarity in a safe space.

Session 3 – Integration: We design new rituals that spark play, trust, and connection.

Q5: Who is it for?

For couples who love each other but feel stuck, distant, or missing the spark.

For individuals who want to understand their emotional and sexual needs, attract conscious relationships, and feel more alive.

Q6: How much does it cost?

Your first clarity call is free — no strings attached.

We also offer a 100% satisfaction guarantee: if you don’t feel a positive shift after your first session, you’ll receive a full refund.

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Q7: Do you work online or in person?

Most sessions happen online, so you can join from anywhere.

We also offer in person mentoring and retreats worldwide.

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Results & Experience

Q8: What results can we expect?

Our clients describe the Mellow journey as a beautiful awakening — a playful rise to a higher level of love, pleasure, and life.

It’s not about “fixing” your relationship — it’s about unlocking your full potential as a couple, and discovering how much joy, intimacy, and passion life can truly hold.

Through our mentoring, you’ll experience:

Clarity and alignment — understanding what truly drives you, what you desire, and how to live in harmony together.

Deep communication — speaking with honesty and curiosity, and finally feeling fully seen and understood.

Playful intimacy — exploring sensuality with freedom, laughter, and excitement.

A renewed sense of aliveness — more energy, more pleasure, more presence — both in and out of the bedroom.

A higher purpose in love — transforming your relationship into a conscious partnership that fuels growth, joy, and creativity.

Couples often tell us:

“We didn’t just find passion again — we found ourselves, and life feels more exciting than ever.”

This is not a reset.

It’s an evolution — into a relationship that’s alive, sexy, joyful, and deeply aligned with who you are becoming.

Because when you live with curiosity, pleasure, and play —everything else in life expands.

Our clients share that living without shame — with the tools and confidence to express and share openly with their partner — creates the perfect ground where love blossoms freely, intimacy deepens naturally, and couples unlock new levels of joy, connection, and success together. Life itself becomes richer, more playful, and full of new possibilities and pleasure .

Q9: How soon will we see changes?

Many couples feel a shift after the very first session.
You’ll walk away with real tools and clarity you can apply immediately.

Our promise: if you don’t feel improvement after your first session — you don’t pay.
We’re here for transformation, not transactions.

Q10: Is it suitable for couples in conflict or crisis?

We focus on growth, pleasure, and conscious communication — not on trauma healing or therapy.

If you’re currently facing trauma, abuse, or deep emotional wounds, we warmly recommend seeking support from a qualified mental health professional who specializes in these areas.

BecomeMellow is designed for couples who are ready to move forward into joy, freedom, pleasure and new possibilities — not to process past pain.

About Eyal & Lidia

Q11: Who are the mentors?

Eyal & Lidia have been partners in love and life for 16 years, living with passion, adventure, and conscious intimacy.

Their background blends relationship mentoring, communication coaching, and emotional intelligence.

They created BecomeMellow from their own journey — to help others experience more freedom, pleasure, and love.

Q12: Why choose you?

Because they live what they teach.

Their mentoring blends masculine and feminine energy, humor, and real life experience.

Clients describe their work as “a breath of fresh air” — fun, deep, and transformative.

Their philosophy: live fully, love deeply, and never regret a day.

Practical & Booking

Q13: How do we start?

Simply book your free clarity call through our website.

Meet us, share your story, and get your first insight into what’s possible for you.

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Q14: Is it confidential?

Yes. 100% private and confidential.

Q15: Do you work with all sexual orientations?

Absolutely. BecomeMellow is inclusive and celebrates all forms of love and identity.

Q16: How to fix a relationship that lost passion?

First, let’s break the myth: There’s nothing to “fix.”

Life isn’t a Disney movie — it doesn’t wrap up in 90 minutes with a perfect ending.
Real life is a journey — full of ups and downs, changes, and growth.
And that’s the beauty of it: the journey itself is the purpose

Passion doesn’t disappear because something’s wrong — it fades when we forget that we are constantly evolving.

So instead of trying to repair the past, focus on embracing the next exciting chapter.

Start with yourself.

💛 Love who you are — without judgment, guilt, or comparison.

Pause for a moment and look at your life:

You’ve grown. You’ve learned. You’re stronger, wiser, and more aware than you were 3, 5, or 15 years ago.

The very fact that you’re searching for more shows that you’re ready to expand — to step into a richer, more alive version of yourself and your love.

Once you see it this way, you realize: You’re not broken. You’re evolving.

And now it’s time to play:)
Bring back curiosity and play — passion fades when life becomes predictable.

Here are simple ways to rekindle the spark:

Talk differently – not about problems, but about dreams, desires, and what excites you. Ask each other playful questions like:

“What do you wish we did more?” or “What turns you on lately?” or “How do you masturbate?”

Create new experiences together – try something you’ve never done, a cooking naked together, a spontaneous trip, or exploring a new side of your intimacy.
Novelty awakens excitement.

Add rituals of touch and attention – a daily 5-minute hug, a “no-phone dinner,” Pinch your partner butt every chance you get.

Small moments of presence create big waves of connection, And remember at the beginning fake it until you make it.

Celebrate each other – passion grows when appreciation flows.

Say out loud what you love and notice about your partner.

According to the Gottman Institute, shared positive experiences and intentional affection are key to rebuilding intimacy and desire.

And when you play this game —

don’t think about what was, or who did what.

Start fresh, as if you’re meeting your partner for the first time.

Life is a stage — and you get to choose which role to play.

And the best part?

You can play someone new every single day

Passion doesn’t come from the past —

it’s created in the present, when you allow yourself to be curious, playful, and free again.

Q17: How to talk about sex without shame?

First, let’s clear the biggest myth:
There’s nothing wrong with wanting sex — in fact, it’s one of the most natural, essential parts of being human.

Ask yourself this:
Could humanity exist without sex? Of course not.
There’s a reason why we crave it, think about it, and long for it — it’s not just desire, it’s biology, emotion, and life energy.

Without sex, there’s no reproduction, less hormonal balance, more stress, and less joy.

We don’t just want sex — we need it.

So the real question isn’t “why do I want sex?”
It’s “why have we been taught to feel shame about it?”

Somewhere along the way, society turned something natural and sacred into something secretive and judged. Once you understand that, everything changes.

Talking about sex becomes easier — because you realize it’s not a guilty pleasure, it’s a vital part of love, health, and happiness.

Now, how do you start the conversation without shame?

Start small – Ask gentle, curious questions like:
“What do you enjoy most when we’re together?”

Then simply listen. Don’t fix, don’t defend — just stay curious.
Follow with:

“What could make it even more enjoyable for you?” or “Is there something new you’d love to try?”

Use writing if it feels easier – Sometimes it’s hard to speak out loud. Try writing your answers on paper first.
It helps you get clear with yourself — and then share them when you’re ready.

Create a judgment-free zone – Agree that this conversation is like being with a guide or therapist:

no judgment, no reactions, only questions and curiosity.

You’re not here to correct each other — just to explore and discover.

Try talking without eye contact – sit back-to-back, or in dim light.
It might sound funny, but it helps many couples open up more easily.

Remember:
You’re not doing anything wrong — you’re learning the language of love and pleasure you learn to discover yourself.

When you talk about sex with openness, curiosity, and respect, you don’t just improve your intimacy — you create a relationship where freedom, trust, and joy become the new normal.

Q18: How to rebuild intimacy after years together?

Intimacy doesn’t disappear — it simply gets covered by routine, responsibilities, and the noise of everyday life.

The connection is still there — it’s waiting for you to see each other again, not as roles (partner, parent, provider), but as two curious souls.

Real intimacy isn’t only physical — it’s built from presence, curiosity, play, and truth.

You don’t need to start big — you need to start real.

Here’s how to begin:
Slow down and notice – pause and truly look at your partner. Ask yourself: “Who are they today?” Because you’ve both changed during life. Intimacy starts with curiosity.

Create micro-moments – a 5-minute hug, a shared morning coffee, a gentle touch in passing, a handwritten note. Tiny gestures remind you: we’re here, together.

Explore again – try new experiences, in and out of the bedroom. Visit a new place, cook something new, or share a fantasy you’ve never spoken out loud. Novelty sparks life.

Speak your truth softly – share how you feel, what you miss, what you desire — not to fix, but to open. Vulnerability is the deepest form of intimacy.

Play the “Curiosity Game” – set aside 10 minutes in the evening.

One partner asks simple, playful questions like:

“What makes you feel loved lately?”

“What do you miss from the early days?”

The other just listens — no judgment, no advice.

Then switch roles. No phones, no goals — just curiosity.

This tiny ritual often creates more closeness than hours of conversation.

Celebrate presence – intimacy grows when you choose to be present, not perfect.
You don’t rebuild intimacy by forcing passion — you rediscover it by inviting curiosity, slowing down, and daring to play again. Because love isn’t a memory. it’s a living practice, and every day is a new chance to meet each other again.

Q19: How do I know if we need help?

If you feel something’s missing — connection, excitement, ease, or clarity — that’s your sign.
It doesn’t mean something’s wrong; it means you’re ready for more.
Mentoring isn’t a fix — it’s a way to growth.
The earlier you act, the faster you evolve — together, don’t wait do regret.

Q20: What’s the best way to create a conscious relationship?

A conscious relationship begins with awareness — of yourself, your patterns, your needs, and your truth.

You can’t connect deeply if you don’t first see yourself clearly. As we love to say: everything starts with you. Over time, we all get used to things.
What once made you smile — her laugh, his energy, the little chaos you once adored — might suddenly feel irritating. It’s not them that changed. It’s you.
So remember: it’s all within you.

When you shift your perspective, love shifts too.
From that awareness, you build together through honest communication, curiosity instead of judgment, and simple rituals that keep love alive in daily life.
Conscious love isn’t about perfection — it’s about presence.
Choosing, every day, to listen, to grow, to play, and to love with open eyes.

And to know: some days you’ll feel deep love, and some days not at all — and that’s okay.
You’re not in a Disney movie.
You’re in real life — and it’s far more exciting, messy, and beautiful.

As Psychology Today notes, couples who practice awareness and authentic communication experience deeper intimacy and lasting joy.

Try this simple tool:
At the end of the day, ask each other one question:

“What made you feel loved today?”
Then just listen. No fixing, no advice — only presence.
It’s a tiny ritual that creates connection through truth.

Q21: Why does pleasure matter for a happy life?

Because Wellness is a pleasure — and pleasure is the deepest expression of being fully alive.
When you strip life to its essence, there are only two forces that move us as humans:

1. The avoidance of pain — working 40 years just to “survive” retirement.

2. The pursuit of pleasure — the moments we feel truly alive (yes, even that quick self-love break in the middle of a workday 😏).

In modern life, most of us invest about 80% of our energy in avoiding pain —and that’s why we see so much stress, anxiety, and depression.

At Mellow, we invite you to shift the balance —give more space to pleasure, curiosity, and joy. You’ll still reach your goals… but the journey will be lighter, happier, and full of smiles.

You can often tell who has a great sex life just by how they walk —how do you look when you walk down the street? 😉

When you allow yourself to feel joy, curiosity, and desire without guilt or shame, you step into your true self — creative, loving, playful, and free.
And when you live that way, you become what we all crave to be:

free and happy.

As Dr. David Viscott beautifully said: “If you cannot risk, you cannot grow.If you cannot grow, you cannot become your best. If you cannot become your best, you cannot be happy.
If you cannot be happy, what else matters?”

Pleasure is not selfish. It’s not a luxury. It’s a life force — the energy that fuels love, health, creativity, and purpose.

When you suppress pleasure, you shrink. When you embrace it, everything expands:
your relationships become more authentic, your creativity flows, your confidence grows, your body relaxes and life feels lighter, richer, and more fun. In a world obsessed with productivity and control, choosing pleasure is a radical act of self-love and liberation.

Because joy is wisdom. Desire is truth. And when you honor what feels good — you align with who you truly are.

If you can be your most free and joyful self in the place society tries hardest to shame — your sexuality — then everything else in life becomes easier.

If you can talk comfortably about your fantasies, desires, and curiosities, you can walk into your boss’s office and ask for a raise without fear.

That’s why Mellow gives you freedom through sexuality —because when you own your pleasure, you own your life.

A life that feels good is a life well lived.

Still curious?

If you’re wondering how to bring passion back, improve communication, or simply feel more alive — you’re in the right place.

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 and experience the shift for yourself.